Celebrant Advocates for Intimate, Meaningful Celebrations
I've always been an advocate for the idea that the best weddings are the ones that are a true reflection of the couple tying the knot. Your wedding day should speak volumes about who you are as individuals, and more importantly, who you are as a couple. One of the biggest misconceptions I encounter in my role as a wedding celebrant is the belief that a larger guest list equates to a more successful wedding. This couldn't be further from the truth.
In fact, I believe one of the easiest ways to save money on your wedding, while also ensuring it's a more personal and meaningful experience, is to simply invite less people.
Now I know what you're thinking, "But Josh, I can't possibly leave out Aunt Betty or my second cousin twice removed!" Well, I'm here to tell you that you can, and you should.
Why Less Is More
Inviting fewer people to your wedding isn't about being stingy or exclusive. It's about creating an intentional celebration that truly reflects your relationship. It's about reducing the noise and focusing on the connections that matter most to you.
Think about it. When you invite fewer people, you're able to spend more quality time with each guest. You're able to have more meaningful conversations. You're able to create memories that will last a lifetime, rather than fleeting moments that are quickly forgotten.
The Financial Benefits
Let's not forget about the financial benefits of a smaller guest list. It's simple math really. Fewer people means less food and drink, fewer chairs and tables, fewer invitations and thank you cards, and the list goes on.
When you reduce your guest list, you're able to allocate more of your budget towards the things that really matter to you. Maybe it's that dream wedding dress you've had your eye on, or perhaps it's a live band that will keep your guests dancing all night long.
Planning with Intention
At the end of the day, planning a wedding is about making intentional decisions that align with your values as a couple. It's about creating a day that feels authentic and genuine.
This extends to every element of your wedding, from your choice of celebrant to the venue, the vendors, and even the timeline of your day. It's about being intentional with your decisions, and not being swayed by societal expectations or outdated traditions.
Your Wedding, Your Way
So there you have it. My controversial take on the easiest way to save money on your wedding. Invite less people, and create an intimate, meaningful celebration that truly reflects you and your partner.
Remember, it's your wedding day. Don't be afraid to break the mould and do things your way. After all, the best weddings are the ones that are a true reflection of the couple tying the knot.